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When someone passes away, it is believed in Shaivism that Lord Shiva grants liberation (moksha) to those devoted to him and helps guide souls to peace. The loss of a loved one is deeply painful, but according to Shiva’s teachings, death is not an end but a transition. Lord Shiva does not "take" someone with malice; rather, he is seen as a loving guardian of souls, providing shelter and spiritual guidance beyond this life.
If you are grieving, you may find solace in meditating on Lord Shiva, chanting his mantras (like “Om Namah Shivaya”), or offering prayers for your husband’s soul, trusting in Shiva’s compassion and grace.