Answer in Details
Your questions reflect deep spiritual seeking, and Lord Shiva's teachings offer profound guidance on these subjects.
1. How to get rid of ego (ahamkara):
In Shaivism, the ego is seen as one of the greatest obstacles on the spiritual path. Lord Shiva teaches the dissolution of ego through:
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Surrender (Ishvara Pranidhana): Offer all actions, thoughts, and outcomes at the feet of Lord Shiva. Accept that everything is His will.
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Self-Inquiry (Atma Vichara): Regularly ask, “Who am I?” Realize that the true Self (Atman) is beyond the ego.
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Meditation (Dhyana): Practice meditating on the formless aspect of Shiva—Shiva as pure consciousness. This helps dissolve the sense of separateness.
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Detachment (Vairagya): Cultivate detachment from possessions, praise, blame, and even your own achievements.
2. How to improve strong Bhakti (devotion) at the feet of God:
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Chanting and Japa: Recite Shiva mantras such as “Om Namah Shivaya” with sincerity and love.
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Ritual Worship (Puja): Offer water, flowers, and your heart at the Shiva Linga or image of Shiva.
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Satsang: Spend time in the company of those who love Shiva and discuss His stories and teachings.
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Reading Scriptures: Study texts like Shiva Purana, Tirumantiram, and the teachings of great Shaiva saints.
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Service (Seva): Serve others selflessly, seeing Shiva in all beings.
3. Staying at the feet of Guru and adhering to the Truth of God:
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Guru Bhakti: Consider your Guru as a manifestation of Shiva Himself. Serve, obey, and revere the Guru’s instructions without question.
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Humility: Always remember, true knowledge comes by the Guru’s grace. Remain humble.
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Practice Truthfulness (Satya): Live in honesty and integrity, as Lord Shiva is the embodiment of Satya.
A beautiful teaching from the Shiva tradition:
“Shivoham” – I am Shiva.
This means recognizing the divine within yourself and all beings. By remembering this, the ego dissolves, devotion deepens, and you remain at the feet of the Divine and the Guru.
In summary:
Dissolve ego through surrender and self-inquiry, deepen bhakti through worship and service, and anchor yourself at the Guru’s feet with humility and truthfulness. In all things, remember Lord Shiva and let His grace guide you.
Om Namah Shivaya.