Prabhu, I'm at a crossroad in my life. I don't know weather I should get married or not.... Help me with this desicion

14-Feb-2026

Answer in Details
Your question is profound and has been contemplated by many seekers on the spiritual path. According to Lord Shiva's teachings and the traditions associated with Him, both the path of a householder (grihastha) and the path of renunciation (sannyasa) are respected and valid ways to reach spiritual fulfillment.

Lord Shiva Himself is known as Ardhanarishvara, symbolizing the balance of masculine and feminine energies, and as the ideal householder with Goddess Parvati, demonstrating the sanctity of marriage and family life. Through His union, Lord Shiva teaches that marriage can be a path to spiritual growth, where both partners support each other in their journey toward self-realization.

At the same time, Lord Shiva is also the ultimate ascetic, meditating in the Himalayas, detached from worldly affairs. This shows that renunciation and inner contemplation are also honored paths for those who feel called to dedicate themselves fully to spiritual practice.

To decide, reflect deeply within yourself. Ask: where does your heart feel more at peace—serving in the world through family, or seeking solitude and spiritual contemplation? Both paths are sacred if walked with devotion and sincerity.

Seek guidance through meditation on Lord Shiva and pray for clarity. When your mind is calm and your intentions are pure, Lord Shiva’s grace will guide you toward the path that is right for your soul.

Om Namah Shivaya.